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  • French Lick: A Timeless, Accessible Destination

    French Lick: A Timeless, Accessible Destination

    French Lick : A Timeless Accessible Destination

    Where historic charm, relaxed atmosphere, and inclusive experiences come together.

    Where Accessibility, Community, and Historic Charm Meet

    There are places you visit, and then there are places that feel like they’ve been quietly waiting for you, places with a kind of timeless charm, where history lingers in the architecture, whispering stories of the past through every beautifully crafted detail. In these enchanting locales, the pace slows just enough for you to breathe and reflect, allowing the weight of the modern world to melt away. The atmosphere wraps around you like a soft blanket, rich with the scents of fresh blooms and the sounds of laughter echoing. French Lick is one of those places, where you can stroll leisurely through quaint shops brimming with unique treasures, pause to savor a cup of artisanal coffee in a cozy café, and let the gentle hum of life envelop you, revealing the beauty of a time-long-forgotten.

    It’s peaceful without being sleepy, offering a serene atmosphere that invites introspection. It’s historic without feeling stuck, blending the charm of the past with accessibility and the vibrancy of modern life, allowing stories of yesteryears to coexist with new accessible experiences. Relaxed yet not losing its spark, it offers an invigorating environment that balances tranquility with excitement, making it a perfect haven for those seeking a refreshing escape.

    And for families like mine, it’s a destination that doesn’t just welcome you, it makes room for you.

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    French Lich West Baden Museum

    Day 1: Dessert First, Accessible Ease, and Fireflies at Dusk

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    Dessert first! Cheesecake

    We arrived with road‑trip energy and that familiar mix of chaos and excitement that comes with traveling as a single mom and her mini‑humans. The car ride had been filled with music, laughter, and a few squabbles over who would get the last of the snacks, all part of the adventure. Dinner at Valley Bar & Grill was our first stop, and because I believe in joy over rules, I started with dessert, fully embracing the idea that life is too short to skip the sweet treats. The cheesecake was silky and absolutely worth the rebellion, each bite melting in my mouth and making me momentarily forget about the spills and messes that accompany our journeys. As my kids dug into their meals, their eyes wide with delight at the indulgence, I felt a sense of peace wash over me. This was what it meant to savor the moment, to prioritize experiences over expectations, and to create memories that would last long after the plates were cleared.

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    Our incredible driver Emily helping Elijah using the shuttle for the first time

    Afterward, we boarded the accessible shuttle, and that’s when the tone of the trip shifted. There’s a particular kind of exhale that happens when a destination chooses accessibility on purpose. No scrambling. No problem‑solving. Just ease. The kind that lets you begin a trip without bracing for the next barrier. These accessible shuttles are free and available to take you anywhere in town and pick you back up and take you back to the resort any time.

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    Zero Entry Pool Our Favorite

    The resort itself carries that timeless French Lick feeling, with wide porches, rocking chairs, art, architecture, and grounds that seem to hum with old‑world calm. The air is filled with the sweet scent of blooming flowers, painting a picturesque scene that invites guests to slow down and soak in the serenity. The kids splashed joyfully in the pool, their laughter echoing off historic walls, creating a symphony of happiness that seemed to mingle with the rustling leaves. Later, as the sun dipped below the horizon, we wandered outside, entranced by the enchanting twilight. There, we watched fireflies drift across the lawn like tiny lanterns, illuminating the warm evening with their gentle glow, while the soft chirping of crickets serenaded us, making the night feel even more magical.

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    A slow evening on the porch

    Inside, Valley Tower the night split into two adventures. The boys and I curled up with Harry Potter, their imaginations igniting as they whispered excitedly about the magical world of wizards and enchanted creatures, while the other two mini-humans grabbed their trusty flashlights and went ghost hunting through the dimly lit halls, their hearts racing with anticipation and a tingle of fear, as they ventured into the shadows, looking for hidden secrets and mysterious sounds, like they were starring in their own suspenseful mystery novel, navigating creaky floorboards and whispering tales of ghosts and ghouls, turning the ordinary evening into an extraordinary escapade filled with laughter and shivers.

    It was the perfect beginning, gentle, magical, and rooted in the kind of peace only historic places seem to hold.

    Day 2: Accessibility, Community, and the Unexpected Magic of French Lick

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    Breakfast

    Morning arrived, and we excitedly headed to The Grand Colonnade Restaurant with the inviting smell of coffee and waffles drifting from the breakfast buffet, a simple pleasure that felt right at home in a town built on slow mornings and steady charm. The laughter of fellow diners added to the day’s cheerful ambiance. Once inside, the warm, welcoming atmosphere enveloped us, and we eagerly filled our plates, savoring the rich flavors of freshly brewed coffee alongside the fruit and made-to-order omelets. Each bite awakened our senses, reminding us of the joys of leisurely breakfasts.

    Where Accessibility Meets Welcome: The Stables

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    Elijah meeting Eeyore

    At the stables , Eore and Pepsi greeted Elijah like he was already part of their story, embodying the spirit of camaraderie that resonated in the air. The staff was warm, patient, and intentional, the kind of people who make accessibility feel natural, not negotiated, ensuring that everyone felt welcome and included, no matter their background or experience.

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    Accessible Trolly Ride

    From there, we boarded an accessible trolley and rolled into town, passing historic buildings that seemed to whisper their own stories. The sunlight danced off the streets as we ventured deeper into the heart of the town.

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    Amanda and the staff at Brick 33 stopped for a picture with us

    Lunch at33 Brick : Community in Action

    Lunch at 33 Brick welcomed us with inherited hospitality, like generations of kindness have lived in the walls. Elijah made friends before we even sat down because that’s who he is.

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    The world’s Largest Circus Diorama

    Circus History & Ice Cream Flights

    The French Lick West Baden Museum was the epic adventure we didn’t know we needed. It really got my kids excited about learning! Old-time candy store vibes, friendly staff, cozy seating, and the world’s largest circus diorama.

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    A flight of Ice Cream

    We wandered into French Licks Ice Cream & Coffee French Licks Ice Cream & Coffee and tried a flight of flavors. A flight. Of ice cream. Pure genius when traveling with four kids.

    Trail Rides, Trolleys & West Baden Magic

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    Trail Ride

    The trail ride was the slowdown I needed. The horses were calm and steady, the staff warm and patient, and the path wound through trees that felt like they were holding space for us. Isaiah rode with this mix of confidence and curiosity that made my heart swell. It was one of those moments where motherhood and magic meet simple, grounding, unforgettable.

    Rail Trolly

    Rail Trolly to West Baden

    Afterward, we headed back to the hotel, rested for a bit, changed, and made our way toward the accessible rail trolley. Except… this one wasn’t actually wheelchair accessible. A single step separated Elijah from the experience. So we did what families like ours do we lifted the chair, made it work, and kept moving toward joy.

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    West Baden Dome

    The trolley carried us to West Baden Dome , once the largest freestanding dome in the world, the “8th Wonder of the World.” Elijah’s laughter echoed through the space, bouncing off the curved architecture as if it belonged there. We explored the museum, soaked in the splendor, and played a few games of chess the kind of slow, thoughtful fun that makes a place feel lived in, a place where your imagination wanders.

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    The kids played a few games of chess

    When we were ready to head back, an accessible shuttle returned us to French Lick Resort , where the evening softened into something cozy and perfect. We decided on a quiet night in pizza from Pluto’s Pizzeria, a stop in the arcade, and the kind of friendly conversations that happen naturally when Elijah is around. People stopped to say hello, and we made new friends without even trying.

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    Movie Night in our room

    We walked and rolled back to the room, ending the night with a movie and a few rounds of cards simple joy, shared laughter, and the kind of togetherness that makes travel feel like home.

    Day 3: Breakfast, Elephants, and a Story We’ll Never Forget

    Our final morning began at Nila’s Place, a casual, family‑run breakfast spot that feels like stepping into someone’s kitchen.Strong coffee, warm eggs, the kind of place that fits perfectly into French Lick’s timeless rhythm.

    Wilstem Wildlife Park Elephant Spa Experience

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    We got to get up close with two elephants

    We headed to the Wilstem Wildlife Park Elephant Spa Experience, the moment that reached all the way back to my childhood. To a circus passing through my hometown and a baby elephant I never forgot.

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    Meeting an Elephant

    Midway through bath time, the property lost water. A real‑life plot twist. But the staff pivoted with kindness and resilience, turning what could have been a disappointment into something more intimate, more human, more unforgettable.

    They shifted everyone, including us, into the Educational Encounter, giving the mini-humans space to ask questions, touch the elephants, and connect with them in a way that felt deeper than any perfect itinerary could have.

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    More elephant fun

    We learned. We laughed. We took once‑in‑a‑lifetime photos. We walked away with a story that will live in our family forever.

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    Burgers!

    Lunch at The Super Burger

    We ended our French Lick adventure at The Super Burger burgers, fries, shakes, nostalgic and exactly right.

    Why French Lick Matters

    French Lick isn’t just a destination. It’s a reminder of what happens when a place honors its history while choosing accessibility, community, and kindness in the present.

    It’s what it looks like when a town says: Timeless history, but make it accessible.

    Timeless. Peaceful. Welcoming. And unforgettable.

  • International Bestseller Book Tour | Route 66 Accessible Travel

    International Bestseller Book Tour | Route 66 Accessible Travel

    International Bestseller Book Tour | Route 66 Accessible Travel

    A multi‑city accessible family travel book tour filled with joy, connection, and Route 66 magic.

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    Our Route 66 bestseller celebration begins.
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    A moment bigger than the road itself.

    There are moments in life that feel bigger than you expect, moments where your family’s story, your advocacy, your heart, and your hope all rise together in one beautiful, unstoppable wave.

    This fall is one of those moments.

    Because Route 66: An Accessible Guide to America’s Most Iconic Road Trip, our family’s love letter to accessible adventure, is officially an international bestseller. And to celebrate, we’re taking Elijah’s Baby Bucket List on a multi‑city book tour filled with joy, connection, and the kind of magic that only happens when families come together to make the world more accessible.

    We’re teaming up with incredible destinations, hosting book signings at Barnes & Noble and other welcoming locations, and hitting the Mother Road to share our story with the communities that helped make this book possible.

    This isn’t just a tour. It’s a movement. And we’re inviting you to come along.

    Chicago, Illinois: Launching the Celebration

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    Chicago: where the celebration begins.

    Chicago is where the tour begins, a city full of energy, skyline magic, and a deep commitment to inclusive travel. We’ll be hosting a Barnes & Noble signing, meeting families, connecting with accessibility advocates, and celebrating the success of a book built to make Route 66 possible for everyone.

    Chicago feels like the perfect place to start a journey rooted in hope.

    Springfield, Illinois: History, Heart & Home‑State Pride

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    Springfield: advocacy meets community.

    Next, we head to Springfield, IL, a reminder that meaningful adventure doesn’t have to be far away. We’ll be stopping for another book signing and partnering with destinations working hard to make travel more accessible for families like ours.

    Springfield is where advocacy meets community, and we can’t wait to bring the Baby Bucket List energy back home.

    St. Louis, Missouri: Gateway to New Adventures

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    St. Louis: one of Elijah’s favorite cities.

    St. Louis has always been one of Elijah’s favorite cities. The accessible riverfront, the museums, the food, the people, it’s a place built for exploration.

    We’ll be teaming up with incredible partners and hosting a book signing that brings together families, advocates, and anyone who believes adventure belongs to everyone.

    Springfield, Missouri: A City Full of Accessible Magic

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    Springfield, MO: warm, welcoming, accessible.

    Springfield, MO, is one of those destinations that surprises you in the best ways. Warm, welcoming, and full of accessible experiences, it’s a perfect stop on our tour.

    And it’s home to some of Elijah’s favorite Baby Bucket List adventures.

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    Wild Animal Safari Park: joy without barriers.

    Wild Animal Safari Park: Where Joy Runs Wild

    Elijah lights up around animals, and Wild Animal Safari Park is pure magic for him. With drive‑through routes and close‑up encounters, it’s an accessible adventure that lets families explore without barriers.

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    Pops Soda Ranch: colorful, quirky wonder.

    Pops Soda Ranch: Colorful, Quirky, and Full of Wonder

    Hundreds of sodas. Bright colors. A vibe that feels like childhood bottled up.

    It’s fun. It’s accessible. It’s unforgettable.

    Dream Makers Garage accessible fun
    Dream Makers Garage: imagination meets wheels.

    Dream Makers Garage: Where Imagination Meets Wheels

    Dream Makers Garage celebrates creativity, engineering, and the joy of movement. For a kid who loves wheels, routes, and the thrill of motion, this stop is everything.

    Book Signings Along the Way Barnes & Noble + More

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    Meeting families along the Mother Road.

    Throughout the tour, we’ll be hosting book‑signing events at:

    • Barnes & Noble
    • Independent bookstores
    • Community centers
    • Partner destinations
    • Accessibility‑focused organizations

    Each stop is a chance to meet families, share stories, and talk honestly about accessible travel, the joy, the challenges, the broken‑equipment moments, the triumphs, and the magic that keeps us going.

    Teaming Up With Incredible Destinations

    Destination partners supporting accessibility
    Partners who believe accessibility is a core value.

    This tour is powered by destinations that believe accessibility isn’t an afterthought, it’s a core value. These partners are helping us create experiences that welcome Elijah and families like ours with open arms.

    Together, we’re building a movement.

    One city at a time, one story at a time, one accessible adventure at a time.

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    Why accessible adventure matters.

    Why This Tour Matters

    Accessible travel isn’t always smooth. Sometimes it’s uneven paths, broken equipment, and improvising on the fly.

    But joy doesn’t need perfect conditions just heart.

    This book tour is our way of sharing that truth with the world. It’s a celebration of resilience, family, and the belief that every child deserves to experience wonder.

    We hope you’ll follow along, join us at a stop, or share the journey with someone who needs a reminder that adventure is still possible.

  • Accessible Family Adventure in Hendricks County, Indiana

    Accessible Family Adventure in Hendricks County, Indiana

    Where Inclusion Isn’t a Buzzword It’s the Welcome Mat

    Some destinations talk about accessibility. Hendricks County lives it. Our stay was filled with firsts, joy, and the kind of thoughtful planning that makes a trip not just possible but magical. From sensory‑friendly water play to adaptive outdoor exploration, from gluten‑free bakeries to a first concert, this visit reminded me why accessible travel matters and why partnerships like this change everything for families like mine. Here are all the accessible things we did in Hendricks County.

    Embassy Suites by Hilton Plainfield Indianapolis Airport

    Travel days can be unpredictable, especially when accessibility needs are involved, but Embassy Suites offered exactly what we needed: space to breathe and wrestle, room to reset, and a layout that made navigating with Elijah’s wheelchair simple and stress‑free. It became our home base, calm, comfortable, and reliable. And the kids’ favorite an omelet bar!

    Pinheads in Brownsburg

    We kicked off our adventure at Pinheads, where the entire upstairs suite was reserved just for our family. Josh from Visit Hendricks County met us with a warm welcome before giving us space to settle in and explore.

    And explore we did.

    It was Elijah’s first time bowling, but watching Elijah win and watching Isaiah cheer him on like the proudest big brother alive, that’s the kind of moment that becomes part of your family’s story. The food was delicious, and you could not ask for better staff! Afterward, we wandered downstairs to the arcade, soaking in the lights, the energy, and the joy of a first night done right.

    This was the most unforgettable start to our accessible adventures in Hendricks County.

    Breakfast at Brewlab’s Mama Bird Bakery & Café

    Gluten‑free options that don’t feel like compromises? That’s Mama Bird.

    Everything tasted intentional, warm, and made with care, the kind of breakfast that makes you feel seen when you travel with dietary needs. It set the tone for a day that would become one of our most meaningful travel days yet.

    Murphy Aquatic Park (Sensory Hours + Private Cabana)

    Avon, IN

    This is where the day shifted from “fun” to “unforgettable.”

    Murphy Aquatic Park had the fun waiting, plus a private cabana just for us. Sensory hours meant Elijah could explore without crowds or noise, and he experienced:

    • His first wave pool
    • First waterpark
    • His first time using a beach wheelchair

    Watching them roll into the water with confidence, watching the waves lift them, while he laughed, was everything. Accessibility wasn’t an add‑on here. It was the foundation.

    We stayed into the afternoon, cuddling in the cabana, letting the kids play until their joy softened into that sun‑tired glow.

    Hotel Reset

    A return to Embassy Suites became more than a pause in the day it was a necessary reset, the kind that keeps joy from tipping into overwhelm. As soon as we got back to the room, the boys did what brothers do best: they wrestled, laughed, tumbled across the beds, and burned off every last ounce of energy they’d been holding in.

    That kind of play is its own form of regulation, a way for them to shake off the noise, the excitement, the transitions, and settle back into themselves. Elijah was all in, and the room felt full in the best possible way.

    Eventually, we changed clothes, rehydrated, stretched out across the beds, and let the quiet wrap around us. No schedule. No rush. Just a family catching its breath between adventures.

    It was exactly what we needed to make the rest of the day feel doable, balanced, and joyful.

    Dinner at Oasis Diner (Plainfield)

    Dinner at the retro‑charming Oasis Diner was more than a meal; it was a conversation that mattered. Kim from the Visit Hendricks County team joined us, and meeting the person whose passion helped shape how accessible Hendricks County has become felt like connecting with the heart behind the hospitality.

    Corinne Bailey Rae at Accessible Hendricks Live Concert Series!

    Our night ended with a first: Our first concert.

    Hendricks Live! welcomed us with accessible seating, smooth navigation, and staff who made us feel cared for. Early entry allowed us to settle in, find our seats, and enjoy the moment without rushing.

    Watching Elijah and the mini-humans take in the music wide‑eyed, calm, and fully included was a memory I’ll carry forever. I watched them more than the show!

    Breakfast at Bread Basket Café & Bakery (Danville)

    A warm, comforting breakfast at Bread Basket Café set the tone for our final morning. The moment we walked in, the smell of fresh‑baked pastries and hot coffee wrapped around us like a blanket. It’s a small place with a big heart, the kind of café where the staff smiles at your kids, where the tables feel close enough for conversation but spaced well enough for Elijah’s chair to move with ease.

    Everything was simple, delicious, and easy for our family’s dietary needs. No substitutions that felt like compromises. No stress. Just a morning meal that allowed us to be present, connected, and unrushed.

    It was one of those breakfasts that doesn’t try too hard, it just is good. And for a family traveling with accessibility needs, that kind of ease is its own gift.

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    W.S. Gibbs Memorial Park (Grit Freedom Chair)

    Avon, IN

    At W.S. Gibbs Memorial Park, we met naturalists at the fishing dock, including Ryann Hoffman, to experience the Grit Freedom Chair.

    The Grit Chair gave Elijah something he doesn’t always get: the chance to experience nature with his siblings.

    They moved through the trail with confidence and pride.

    This wasn’t just an activity it was access to a world that isn’t always built with him in mind.

    Lunch at Ms. B’s Teas (Clayton)

    Last, we ended our accessible Hendricks County adventure at Ms. B’s Teas, a cozy, charming spot with gluten‑free options that made lunch feel effortless and comforting. The atmosphere felt like stepping into a friend’s kitchen, warm, calm, and full of small details that make families like mine feel welcome.

    And then came one of the sweetest surprises of the trip: several members of the Visit Hendricks County team were already there waiting to meet us.

    After two days of experiencing the heart behind their accessibility efforts, getting to talk, laugh, and share stories felt like closing the loop on everything we had seen. These weren’t just staff members. They were people who cared deeply about inclusion, who showed up not just in planning but in person.

    It was the perfect final note to a trip built on intention, kindness, and community.

    Why Hendricks County Matters

    Some destinations talk about accessibility. Hendricks County builds it into the blueprint.

    From sensory‑friendly water play to adaptive outdoor exploration, from thoughtful dining layouts to staff trained in inclusive hospitality, this community is becoming a national model for accessible family travel.

    For families like mine, that means everything.

    It means joy without barriers, memories without limits. It means Elijah leading the way, not being carried through it.

    Hendricks County isn’t just accessible. It’s intentional, warm. It’s deeply human.

    And we can’t wait to return.

  • Leading the Way: Hendricks County Accessibility Summit

    Leading the Way: Hendricks County Accessibility Summit

    How Hendricks County, IN Became a National Model for Accessible, Inclusive Travel

    Most destinations talk about accessibility.

    Hendricks County is building it into the blueprint.

    In April, the county hosted its first-ever Accessibility Summit, bringing together tourism leaders, business owners, parks departments, nonprofits, and families with lived experience. It wasn’t a symbolic gathering. It was a working session, a place where real stories met real strategy, and where a community chose to move from awareness to action.

    As a mom traveling with a medically complex child, I’ve learned to recognize the difference between performative inclusion and the real thing. What I witnessed in Hendricks County was rare, a destination not just listening, but changing.

    An Accessibility Summit Rooted in Lived Experience

    The accessibility summit was born from a simple but powerful idea:

    Accessibility improves when the people most affected are invited to lead the conversation.

    Families shared what it feels like to navigate crowded spaces, unpredictable sensory environments, and attractions that weren’t designed with disability in mind. Business owners and tourism partners listened not defensively, but with curiosity and humility.

    This wasn’t a room full of experts talking at each other.

    It was a room full of neighbors learning from one another.

    The county’s tourism team emphasized that accessibility isn’t a checklist; it’s a culture. And culture shifts when people are willing to ask hard questions, hear hard truths, and commit to meaningful change.

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    From Conversation to Action

    What impressed me most was how quickly Hendricks County moved from listening to doing.

    Participants left the accessibility summit with actionable steps, including:

    • Creating sensory‑friendly experiences at attractions, museums, and events
    • Improving physical accessibility in parks, trails, and public spaces
    • Training staff in disability‑inclusive hospitality across hotels, restaurants, and venues
    • Developing adaptive outdoor opportunities, including Grit Freedom Chair access
    • Building inclusive dining environments with room to maneuver and flexible seating
    • Strengthening partnerships with disability organizations to ensure ongoing accountability

    This wasn’t a one‑day event.

    It was the beginning of a long-term commitment.

    A County Willing to Lead

    What sets Hendricks County apart is not perfection, but willingness.

    Willingness to learn.

    To change.

    Willingness to lead.

    The accessibility summit made one thing clear: this community understands that accessibility is not a trend or a marketing angle. It’s a responsibility. And when destinations embrace that responsibility, families like mine feel something we rarely feel when we travel:

    Belonging.

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    Why This Matters for Families Like Mine

    Traveling with a medically complex child means every outing is a calculation.

    Will there be shade?

    Will there be space?

    What about understanding?

    In Hendricks County, the answer is yes, not because they have all the answers, but because they are committed to finding them.

    The accessibility summit validated something I’ve believed for years:

    Accessibility grows when communities choose to listen to lived experience.

    And Hendricks County is choosing that path boldly.

    ACCESSIBILITY NOTES: Hendricks County’s Leadership in Action

    Staff trained in disability‑inclusive hospitality Businesses are learning how to welcome families with dignity and ease.

    Sensory‑friendly experiences. Attractions are adopting quiet hours, reduced‑stimulus environments, and sensory tools.

    Zero‑entry pools & adaptive equipment. Aquatic centers are expanding barrier‑free water access.

    Inclusive dining, restaurants are rethinking layout, flow, and staff training.

    Accessible entertainment venues Theaters and museums, are improving seating, pathways, and communication.

    Grit Freedom Chair outdoor access Parks are partnering to open trails to wheelchair users.

    Staff trained in disability‑inclusive hospitality Businesses are learning how to welcome families with dignity and ease.

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    A woman taking pictures of accessible options at a pool

    A Blueprint for the Future

    Hendricks County isn’t just improving accessibility.

    They’re modeling what it looks like when a community chooses inclusion as its foundation.

    They’re proving that accessibility isn’t a burden, it’s a bridge.

    A bridge to belonging.

    To joy.

    A bridge to a world where every family, every body, and every story has a place.

    And that is leadership worth celebrating.

  • The Origin Story Behind Elijah’s Baby Bucket List

    The Origin Story Behind Elijah’s Baby Bucket List

    Origin story of Elijah’s Baby Bucket List. A journey of faith, family, and choosing joy on purpose.

    Some stories don’t start with a plan. They start with a moment, the kind that splits your life into a before and an after. For me, that moment happened in a neurologist’s office. I heard the words no parent is ever prepared to get. A terminal prognosis. With a future full of unknowns. A timeline no one could promise. The origin story of Elijah’s Baby Bucket List began right there in that office.

    As a single mom of ten, I felt the weight of that moment. It was both crushing and clarifying. There was no one to hand the decision-making over to. No one to trade shifts with. No one to steady the room when it started to spin. It was just the children who were looking to me for strength, and me.

    I remember holding this tiny sleeping baby. The world tilted. I had only one clear thought: If time is uncertain, then joy cannot wait.

    That single conviction became the heartbeat of everything that followed.

    The Drive That Changed Everything

    From the hospital parking garage, I decided to pivot. I loaded Elijah and his siblings into the car and started driving. There was no itinerary or hotel reservation. I had no plan beyond getting to the ocean. Thirteen hours from Illinois to Jacksonville Beach, chasing something I couldn’t name yet. Hope. Clarity. Maybe a miracle.

    When we arrived, the world felt strangely still. The waves rolled in like a promise. I told my children the truth about Elijah’s diagnosis. We cried. We held each other. And then, in the most unexpected moment of peace, we looked out at the ocean. The beginning of something sacred.

    That day wasn’t just the start of a trip. It was the start of Elijah’s Baby Bucket List.

    A group of five children posing together outdoors with a scenic mountain backdrop. One older child is holding a baby, while the others are smiling for the camera.
    A group of five children, sitting on the shore of a beach, with waves gently washing over their legs. They are wearing swimsuits and facing the ocean under a partly cloudy sky.

    A Vow Made at the Water’s Edge

    Standing on that shoreline, I made a vow. Elijah and his siblings would have an incredible life together. Their life would be overflowing with wonder, connection, and joy.

    Not someday. Not when things were easier. Or when we had more time. But now.

    We would chase sunsets and mountaintops. Find beauty in the ordinary and the extraordinary. We would choose joy on purpose, even when the world felt heavy.

    And we would do it together.

    From One Trip to a Movement

    What started as a spontaneous drive to the ocean turned into a mission. It has carried us through forests, mountains, lakes, and long stretches of open road. Become a way of living. It is rooted in faith and resilience. It includes the belief that accessibility should never be a barrier to joy.

    As we traveled, I documented everything. Noted the wins, the challenges, and the accessibility gaps. I captured the moments of awe and the kindness of strangers. Elijah’s smile can light up an entire trail.

    People began following our journey. Then sharing it. Then asking how they can help.

    What started as a mother’s vow has become a global community. A resource. A movement for accessible family travel.

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    A diverse group of people, including children and adults, wearing life jackets, posing enthusiastically by a lake. Some are holding paddles, and one individual is in a wheelchair. The background features trees and water activities.

    Why This Story Still Matters

    Every partnership, every interview, every destination we visit, it all comes back to that first moment on the beach. The vow. The purpose. The belief that families like mine deserve to experience the world together with dignity, comfort, and joy. The origin story of Elijah’s Baby Bucket List has shaped our family. It has also influenced a wider community.

    Elijah’s Baby Bucket List isn’t about checking off places. It’s about choosing joy before fear. Connection before convenience. Faith before certainty.

    It’s about living fully, right now. And giving others the courage to do it too!

    The Mission Going Forward

    Today, our journey continues with a bigger purpose:

    • advocating for accessible travel
    • partnering with destinations ready to welcome families like ours
    • creating resources for caregivers
    • building a nonprofit to support epic adventures for medically complex families
    • and telling the stories that remind us all to savor the moments that matter

    Because if there’s one thing this journey has taught me, it’s this: Joy is not something you wait for. It’s something you choose again and again.

    And we are choosing it every day!

    Two children one in a wheelchair posing in front of a large Halloween-themed pumpkin display in a park, with a cloudy sky in the background.